Sensual In-Home Spa

Everyone needs time to totally relax and rejuvenate.  This can be done at home with a "Spa Day."  The most important aspects of a spa day are: no distractions, complete indulgence and attention to detail.  Spa days may be done in private or may include a partner.  A suggested spa day includes the following steps:

• Find a trusted person to care for your children and/or pets, if necessary.
• Turn off ALL telephones, machines or other devices that are inherent interruptions.
• Lock the doors and disable the doorbell. Place a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door.
• Program some soothing music.  I suggest the "Master Composers," New Age, or Classical Guitar.  The music should run on a loop or long enough that you do not have to change CD's. (Remember the details!)
• Make your "spa" smell delicious with incense or fragrant oils.
• Turn off the lights, (all of them), and light candles.  I once treated my lady to a "spa" lit by 100 candles!
• Gather the products you will use to pamper yourself.  These may include skin care items like mud facials, bath salts, massage oils, skin creams, etc.  You do not want to be searching for these items once you have begun to relax!
• Enlist a hand-held massage device or, (if you have opted for a "couples" spa day) have your partner prepared to provide a great massage.
• Run a bath using lots of bubbles, oils and salts.  If you own a whirlpool use that!
• Pour your favorite drink.  I suggest fine wine, expensive cognac, aged port or champagne.  Remember to use your finest stemware. ( I have black "Mikasa" flutes for champagne, delicately etched glasses for port, crystal snifters for cognac and hand-blown glasses for wine.)
• Apply a facial mask if you have opted to do so.  Take your time.
• Slowly sink into your bath until fully engulfed by the warm, sensual water.
• Breathe deeply and clear your mind.
• After some time, (if you have a partner present), they may bathe you. Remember the details and leave no place untouched!  This is a good time to receive a manicure and pedicure.
• Gently remove your mask and pat yourself dry.
• It is time for your massage.  If you use a hand-held device, cradle it in your hand and slowly massage every area you can reach.  If you are lucky enough to have enlisted your partner/lover they should provide a sensual massage using aromatic, silky oils.  This should be a "full-body" massage!  (I should have noted earlier that your lover should be silent throughout most of your ritual with this being the one exception.  They may now whisper to you how lovely you are and comment on your beauty in general.)
• Sleep for a time.

When you awake you should be treated to the most decadent of foods, either prepared by your partner and fed to you, or taken at a spectacular restaurant.  Your attire should be something that makes you look amazing, if at home, wear nothing at all!

Naturally, this would be a wonderful time for some romantic lovemaking!  Not only does it feel good it's good for you!  Remember to dress the part.  Wear something that makes you feel sexy, perhaps a body stocking and high heels!  (Remember the details.)

Try not to end your spa experience until the next day when you gather your children and/or pets and return to reality.

Metta,
Lady's Man